As much happiness they bring, still, the hurt is deep!

Wednesday, May 24, 2006
Some years ago, I used to think that crushes, or one sided love was a stupid dumb thing. Then it was someone who changed that idea of mine. He said that as long as the presence of that person in your life makes you happy.. makes life looks better for you, then why bother about anything else?!

I was very much convinced with that. I realized that this actually what happens. Whether the admiration or love is mutual or not, just being around these people made me happy. However, I just realized something today, though their presence makes your life beautiful, but still if they hurt you, the pain is too deep.
 
posted by MoonLightShadow at 10:38 PM, |

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That's very true, because the things about having a crush is it makes you hyper-sensitive towards that person, which means that one smile from them can make you so happy but likewise any little thing that's bad they do feels ten times worse then it should.
  At 5/26/2006 01:44:00 AM Anonymous Someone said:
one sided love was a stupid dumb thing. Then it was someone who changed that idea of mine. He said that as long as the presence of that person in your life makes you happy.. makes life looks better for you, then why bother about anything else?!

I am sorry I do not agree with that. The question is, Does X feel better if the other side loves him/her back? if it is a yes, so the first case, which was yours, was just a waste of human resources, time, ...etc

You certainly know how things are to be so there are no blur views, perceptions, surprises [bad ones], nor whatsoever.

Make your mind and put things back on their real state and you will feel better next time. cheer up!
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The problem Moon is that if that other person is totally clueless, he wouldn't even understand why you're bothered all that much or why you're that over-sensitive (not that guys have a clue anyways, sorry guys :P) The bottom line is.. I believe that unrequited love is nothing but pain, although one might enjoy it for a while, but one's emotional energy would rather be invested in a more.. well.. fruitful way..
I truely beleive the saying.. if you love someone but they did not love you back do not be sad that your love did not grow in their hearts just be glad it grew in yours..
Peace..
One-sided love is a curse..why? cause i don't think there's such a thing called "unconditional love" , when u love someone u expect them to love u back..otherwise it'll be an endless pain in the neck.
IF IT HAPPENS AND U FIND SOMEONE TO LOVE.JUST BE THANKFUL SOME PASS THEIR TIME WITH NO ONE TO LOVE AND NOT BEING LOVED.THERE IS A LOT OF SADNESS IN THE AIR SO BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT U FEEL.BY THE WAY I AM A NEW BLOGGER WHO KNOW NOTHING ABOUT ANYTHING IF U WOULD HELP ME WITH FEW TIPS I WOULD BE GRATEFUL DEAR MOON SHADOW